lesson learned

while signing agreement just now, i hv to sign almost 20 pages doc in front of an officer. And my signature looks so weird..ooo..i hate it..but then i learnt, don't press the pen on the paper. it makes the signature teribble..so for the subsequent signature, i signed smoothly. so, don't give pressure in ur daily life..it doesnt' help

thank you - my valuables

many things around i never express my thanks. here it goes.

to my laptop
who always there to help me in daily tasks

to my hp
who always wake me up when the time comes, reach me to my loves

to my office
i'm going to move to another room, thank you for provide me memorable shelter (to air con, chair, table and door :) thank you as well. keep your good job)

to my car
who always ready to bring me anywhere as i want

to my hand bag and wallet (the old and new)
thank you, thank you for keeping my things safe

to books, papers around
sorry, i know u're around and but fail to remember where you are, hihi.. thank you keeping all important notes, info and even knowledge within you, you know all those things better than me, hihi

on farewell lunch-marketing students

I was just back from a farewell lunch of final year student of marketing. I did teach them last two sems and frankly speaking I’m not so close with them except for one student who always friendly greets me with warm smile.

We arrived quite late and I just threw smile for some of them and went straightly to the table that are ready for us. Start eating without bothering much on students.

Once finished (actually we did not fully complete the meals as most of us look discomfort with surroundings – student start making noise, taking picture here and there..) my frens made quick move to leave the hall. Me, realized that students started queuing to greet lecturers stop my frens as we have to stand in line as well.

They came towards, shaking hand and hugging us. And for sudden I felt all the cold feelings turn into sad on thinking that they’re going to leave us and start living on their own..mencuba nasib di luar sana. This makes me remember what Covey said on love:


love is a verb. Love — the feeling — is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?

tanpa tajuk

Jgn biarkn
perasaan yg bukan2
menimpa diri mu
agar kau tak kaku, jemu, lesu, malu
atau lebih dari itu

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tanya akal- "susun strategi"
tanya emosi - "abaikan, lupakan, biarkan"
tanya hati - jarang sekali

Long way to go..

Students do not learn much just sitting in classes listening to
teachers, memorizing prepackaged assignments, and spitting out answers. They must talk about what they are learning, write about it, relate it to past experiences, and apply it to what they feel is important. They must make what they learn a part of themselves. Equally important is the need make explicit the learning processes that are occurring in the learning environment and why particular strategies are being used.

Denise Chalmers
Teaching and Educational Development Institute
The University of Queensland

Diari Mac

19 Mac (rabu)

Siapkan carry mark budak2 ni. mentang2 la nk cuti 4 hari, so kene la pulun siapkn. so, by 8.30pm, berjaya juga menaikkn markah dia org..dah kelabu2 mata, cmpur pinar2 sbb sehari suntuk duk mengadap bende ni

20 Mac (khamis)
pagi2 dh bertolak ke kuantan, ambil mak abah dn drive ke t'loh. smpai kt t'loh terus pi tinjau2 tapak rumah baru. emmm... rumah ni agak kecik berbanding tanah nya yg luas..tp org buat rumah kata umah ni dah cukup besar dan dia kata tak de rumah setingkat yg lebih besar dari ni. bilik2 rumah ni ada 6, tp bilik dia tak la besar sgt. cadangnya nk besarkn ruang tamu dalam dua kaki. tapi mesti kene tambah koskan. entah la.

21 mac (jumaat)
pi lawat cousin kat Felda Kumai. Ayah dia org (bapak saudara) meninggal 9 thn lepas, dn baru ni lepas raya haji mak dia org meninggal. Junaidah or Jue, my cousin dpt 2A dlm STPM, so lawatn ni sbgai meninjau2 permohonan Junaidah ke IPTA. Jue penah masuk Sek Seri Puteri seminggu dua ms form 1 tp balik semula ke Felda Kumai sbb tak thn berpisah dgn ibunya! (anak perempuan tunggal)

22 mac (sabtu)

pagi2 pi umah mak cik tukang urut sbb mak dn wan nk berurut. tp mak cik tu tak de kt umah. mak kata dia pi kursus haji. tghari masa tgh nk start memasak, wan de A umah kat depan umah wan ajak mkn t/hari pas zuhur. Yahooo...tak yah memask

23 mac (ahad)
pagi pi pekan sari (nama penuh -sehari)kt bndr temerloh. psr minggu ni panjang dn kami jes jalan suku dr panjng asal. beli brg2 utk wan dan makanan pagi. byk tul kuih mak beli. ye la, kuih2 kat cni rasa ori lagi, tak mengelat!

tengahari kami bertolak balik. sebuah kereta ke kuantan dn sebuah lagi ke kl.

stress

Stress atau tekanan adalah masalah biasa di kalangan manusia. Org yg stress akan kelihatan dari raut wajahnya, perckpannya, reaksi atau perlakuannya. Rasa stress yg dialami oleh seseorang bukan sahaja mendatangkn kesan pada dirinya malah pd org sekelilingnya (samaada kita perasan atau tidak).

The American Institute of Stress mendefinasikan stress sbg:

a condition or feeling experienced when a person perceives that demands exceed the personal and social resources the individual is able to mobilize

Berdasarkan definisi di atas, ternyata stress akan berlaku apabila keperluan melebihi kemampuan kita. Jadi utk mengelakkan stress, wajarlah kita mengawal diri supaya sentiasa berfikir dan bertindak sesuai dgn kemampuan kita.

Stress dlm aktiviti harian

Setiap hari, pelbagai tugas perlu diselesaikan dan adakala mengundang stress. Tetapi, jarang kita dengar manusia stress krn gagal melaksanakan tugas2 yg diamanah Tuhan nya. Mungkin, manusia tidak menghadapi stress dlm beribadah kerana ianya masih dalam lingkungan kemampuannya, cuma tiada kekuatan utk melaksanakan sebaik mungkin.

Teman saya mengulas kuliah Dr Rosnani, Pensyarah UIAM. Dia menyebut, Al-Attas menyatakan ilmu hanya akan lengkap bila diamalkan. Dan saya mencelah, Nonaka menyebut perkara yg sama: knowledge is justified belief and skill.

Jadi, utk mengelakkan stress, bertindaklah di dalam kemampuan kita, dgn ilmu (semestinya fahaman dan amalan yg benar- rujuk pd takrifan Nonaka), insyaAllah kita dapat mengelakkan stress. Dan seperti kata Theodore Roosevelt: "do what you can, with what you have, where you are.”